First off, sorry for not posting a Weekend Bites last week. At some point I may worry that this is becoming an unhelpful narrative that Iām building in my head, but at least for now I accept (and those close to me know) that Iām not always the most reliable or consistent. I try my best though and if you need someone to drive you to the hospital and argue with doctors on your behalf, Iāll be there in a jiffy. Now you know this about me too, so weāre friends. Secondly, I confess itās been a bad/good week over here - Iāve received some lovely compliments and noted other areas where I need to improve. Every week feels like a small reckoning with who I am, what I care about, and what Iām willing to do. At times like these, I seek the gentle, calm and constructive. If you too want to be encouraged, grounded and soothed, I hope some of these links do that for you. As friends, shall we continue on with this weekās edition of Weekend Bites? Letās.
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Iām becoming a bit obsessed with Rajiv Surendra - not in a āIāve looked through his entire Instagram feed and figured out where he livesā kind of way, but in a āI really like him and love the way he thinks and explains things, maybe we can be friendsā way. That sounds less creepy, right? Anyway, I really enjoyed this recent video about his apartment. One of the things I absolutely love about Rajiv is his ability to surprise me - Iāll think heās going to rehash the same-old-same-old advice or topics but he somehow twists them to be more thoughtful, mindful and beautiful. You might not agree, but if youāre here, I have a small notion that weāre all kindred spirits.
A colleague reminded me that this tool exists - Goblin Tools. I first saw it on TikTok but, like most things on there, I saved the video and never revisited it. Iāve now resorted to screenshotting or saving videos to my phone with the idea that somehow this will change things. I mean, when was the last time you reviewed your phone photos? I digress thoughā¦

Goblin Tools is a free web application that uses AI to help people, particularly neurospicy folk, do a range of things, like build a task list, check the tone of something youāre writing, or estimate how long a task will actually take. These are all things that neurodivergent people tend to find challenging (hello time blindness, my old friend) so the fact that this tool exists is *chefās kiss*. I havenāt used Goblin Tools for anything serious yet (my brain is actually quite good at breaking things down into smaller tasks) but I can definitely see myself using the Compiler, Chef and Formalizer tools at some point.

Corinne Bailey Rae has new music out and I just think this song and music video is beautiful.
Despite having a Substack newsletter (hi, youāre reading it), I hadnāt downloaded the Substack app before this week. This morning, I used the app to read through the latest newsletters that I subscribe to and it was pretty wonderful. Iāve often looked romantically on weekend mornings reading the paper after breakfast but end up death scrolling on social media in our curtained living room instead. I may not have a physical newspaper or a breakfast nook, but now I have the Substack app and itās actually really good? If you love reading and writing, I think youāll like this app. So many writers, artists, scientists and other amazing folk are on Substack now and subscribing to their newsletters feels a little like direct access to them in a very pleasant way. Like,
has a Substack newsletter! With the app you can easily see all of the newsletters youāve subscribed to in one place, and I love that you can bookmark ones you want to save for whatever reason. You can download the app through the usual means and, if you want some newsletter recommendations, you can find mine on the right hand side of the Like Minds homepage. Thereāll also be more recs below.You wanted recs, you got recs - The best Substack newsletters according to The Guardian.

Really enjoyed reading this recent newsletter from
about federated social networks like Reddit and Substack being the future. If youāre like, āwhatās a federated social network?ā - same. Erikās piece explains everything and is super thought provoking to boot.And now just something fun for your weekend - Sohla and Hamās Mystery Menu. In each video, the married duo are asked to make a multi-course meal using a surprise ingredient. I love these too and a top tier goal would to absolutely go to their house for a dinner party. Itās always amazing to see what they can create out of something like jell-o. In this video, they tackle durian, which is famously a fineable offence if you bring it on the train system in Singapore. Sometimes described as smelling like warm, very old rubbish, Ham and Sohla handle durian like the pros they are. As an illustrator, I also adore Sohlaās food drawings when theyāre planning out the meal. Sohla has a Substack newsletter at
if youāre keen.Thatās it for this week. Have a sleepy, gentle Sunday with this song: